I originally wrote a lot for this post, but when I was upgrading my blog, I suddenly realized there was no need for a lengthy essay. For me, whether it's marriage or love, what matters most is a plain and sincere relationship—one where both people deeply love and care for each other, and where the two stand on equal footing. In my eyes, that's the ideal state of a relationship.

      And happiness? It's the feeling you get after achieving all that—a feeling that needs enough love to sustain it. In a marriage built on such a feeling, marriage is nothing more than a name given to that love. So, marriage is just a load of crap; what I want is to love my beloved, and that can't be dictated by whether we can get married or have kids