I initially wrote a lot for this article, but when upgrading my blog, I suddenly felt that there is no need to write long-winded essays. For me, whether it's marriage or love, a plain and sincere relationship is the most important. In a relationship, deeply loving each other, caring for one another, and having equal status — this, in my eyes, is the most ideal emotional state.

      What about happiness? It is the feeling gained after achieving all this. This feeling requires enough love to sustain it, and in a marriage with such feeling, marriage is just a name given to this love. Therefore, marriage is just bullshit; I want to love my beloved, not to be dictated by whether we can get married and have children